Husband troubles..

My husband and I agreed early August to start TTC. He said if he is going to go through with it that I can't talk about it AT ALL. That means no discussing names or excitement. NOTHING. (It gives him anxiety) which I understand, its new, it's scary. He knows how much being a mom means to me because I lost my mom to cancer when I was 6. It's all I want in life. So now every time I mention I'm ovulating or that we need to have sex on a certain day he suddenly "doesn't feel good" or "can we just put it off for one night" or purposely picks fights so we both get mad and he gladly sleeps on the couch. I'm starting to really lose hope...I'm tired of him saying "fine let's get it over with" then laying like a board and not making a noise for 2 minutes, and I get no pleasure out of it. It's breaking my heart...