Part 2 the homeless guy

Kim

Part 1 (So for the past couple of days almost a week. My husband has been letting this man he barely knows stay In our house because he is homeless. I met the man one day & he seems kinda off. You can tell he is on drugs or coming off of them he started rambling on about he died & he came back to life & stabbed a man In the face with a rusty screw driver it made me very uncomfortable so I went upstairs. I talked to my husband & told him," I understand you are trying to be nice & help out your friend but something just doesn't fit right with me & I don't feel save in my own house anymore" I told him that the man can come over but the spending the night had to stop. So Sunday night the doorbell rings 10:30 at night my husband has to get up at 4 in the morning for work & im trying to get over being sick every little things annoys me I'm battling with sickle cell so it's days where I get sick & just want to be cuddled up with my husband. So my husband goes to the door & it's the guy I'm like wth so they are downstairs talking until 1 sum in the morning & my husband wakes up & goes to work I'm thinking the man left when he left my husband left but the man was still in the house with me he took a shower & was walking around & I locked the door. When I tell you I was scared I called my mom & talked to her for a few. Then the man starts telling him about his family & we find out the man is my husbands uncle. I understand that my husband wants to help this man out but us not really knowing him I don't think he should be here as much as he is & I'm for sure he has a drug issue. Me being sick I'm not able to work as much meaning my husbands income can only take care of us 2 for now until I get back on my feet. The man throws hints like he wants us to fix his bike & lend him money for this & that. We don't have the space or the money for it. I have really bad anxiety because of things that's happened to me in my child hood I know it's nice to help out the homeless & all but something isn't adding up to me at all & I rather this man not be here alone with me. Am I over reacting what should I do ?)

Part 2-Yesterday I woke up & was feeling really drained & extra stressed I had to go grocery shopping. So I walk outside & its like have tunnel vision I'm on high alert this least little noise I'm scared & paranoid. Enough is enough I can't keep living like this. I came home from grocery shopping feeling so sick & tired my husband gets home from work hours late. I talked to him & told him the homeless guy is not aloud to stay here anymore or spend the night he looked me in my face & said okay with a attitude. Around 9:00 at night the door bell rung it's was the homeless guy my husband lets him in & told me he wasn't spending the night im so pissed I gave my self a migraine. I wake up In the morning & I can feel something isn't right my husband is up extra early. I here constant foot steps my husband was already dressed in his PT gear but then I hear the shower come on 🤔 I call my husband on the phone because the door was locked to the bathroom he answers & I said knock on the bathroom door if it's you I hear a knock I go lay down then I hear footsteps down stairs 🤔 so I'm like what in the hell is he teleporting. I go downstairs the homeless man is getting dressed in the living room while my husband is no where to be found. I texted my husband cursing him out & then I texted a SGT in his command I don't know what to do anymore he really does not care about how I feel about the situation at all he even told me to go to my moms house & it's sad I have to leave my house because he wants this man to stay there. I don't know what to do at this point.

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