I would just like to share my story here with you all. When i became a woman for the first time aunt flow didn't come for her visits regularly. I talked to my mother and she took me to my first appointment at the obgyn's office and we talked and she decided to put me on birth control to try and regulate it but i would miss a day sometimes and they didn't become regular. Eventually she decided to put me on the depo shot and that just made it worse. Then one day i was working at clover leaf cold storage in napoleon, ohio and at that time my ex just broke up with me over text message non-the less also the day after we spent my birthday together i was heart broken i didnt no what to do. i was to the point where i was done getting hurt then i ended up working with his best friend and he introduced us then we started talking and 2 years later here we are happy and together and i wouldnt change it for the world. Anyways about 1 year ago i stopped taking the depo shots and we havent used protection because frankly they don't fit him and i havent gotten pregnant but we have talked to my obgyn about it and she said that i would need meds to help me and i started taking them and one day i just said NO i don't want to take meds to help me. So i started thinking and i happened to have lost alot of my weight and i do feel better but i no i still have a long way to go before i am truly happy with myself but he has been there through everything and helping me through everything. We really would love to have a child but i have always been scared that i might not being able to concieve a child but he always reasures me that it okay. I have recently taken a test because i had a feeling like i might be but to no surprise it was negative so i am thinking about possiably trying agine but i hate getting my hopes up then for them to get crushed. But my last period was back in april and i have not had one yet so im kind of scared about that but they have never been regular. I may not look like it but i am 24 years old and i just wish i didnt need to depend on meds to concive a child. Every time i think about it i get depressed and sad to think alot of woman can just open their legs and BOOM!! They have a baby but for us we need a little more than that. To me i think its not fair. But on the other hand we work harder for the same thing but we apprieciate more because it means more to us. I would like some advice on what would help with concieving please and thank you