I feel like a terrible wife

We've been married about 2.5 months... And I honestly dont do a lot of things that a wife should do. And I suck for it... I admit I'm an awful wife, but honestly idk how to fix it... I try everyday to do better but It doesnt seem to do much... and trying to do even a little bit more is exhausting and emotionally draining... I could just sit and cry all day every day.... Is it normal to feel this way after getting married? Did anybody else go through this? I'm about ready to say we need counseling bc idk what to do anymore...