Freaking out O.o

So little over a month ago me and my husband decided to stop bc and to I guess passively ttc. By passively I mean like just having unprotected sex whenever and if it happens it happens. Since stopping bc I have yet to start and we have had sex at least once a week. I thought I was experiencing symptoms but when I tested it was negative. I already feel like I am giving myself false hope. I mean it's only been a month. But, quite a few people that I have talked to said they were able to conceive in the first month. I don't know when I am supposed to start and checking to see just makes me depressed but not knowing drives me crazy. Any advice?