Help... Stressed need someone to talk to.

I'm so stressed with work and home I don't know what to do. I work 50hours a week and come home and have to do everything here. I get 10 minutes to sit down it seems and when that does happen in only sitting to write the bills out. I have animals also and I ask my husband to pick up poop or change litter and it's like pulling teeth. I have my mom who comes and helps when she shouldn't have too. We've been TTC for awhile and it seemsoke it's not going to happen until things change. Some advice to get the man working around the house????