Staying positive?

Hi ladies,

Husband and I have been TTC for 3 months. I know it's still early and I need to be patient and my body is adjusting to being off BC for the first time in 14 years and and and... but it's still hard. I'm also very aware of my age re: fertility. I didn't expect to become so obsessed with it and keep trying to channel a zen attitude about conceiving, but not succeeding. I think the hardest is not knowing what to expect- my period is starting earlier and earlier each month and although we're following the clues from the opk, nada. I also feel like I can't talk to anyone about it because it's only been 3 mo and they'll tell me to be patient. So sharing here instead. How do you stay positive??