Husbands who doesnt want sex

Does anyone else have trouble with their husbands NOT wanting sex? Or ANY type of sexual contact hardly EVER??? My husband makes it seem like a chore for him to have sex with me, all he says is he's too tired or he doesn't feel like it! Like dude, I get sex maybe once or twice a month and it's mediocre at best. Oh and heaven forbid if my PCOS acts up and I have a tiny bit a bleeding he avoids it like the plauge. it seriously puts a damper on our relationship and my self esteem. Oh, and also on us becoming parents.... 😒😒😒