Getting a VR SOON & Already a wreck.....

We are scheduled for November for hubbys VR in the newer Rhode Island Reversal Clinic location(were in MD) and with Dr. Wilson (from OK) associate, who’s a bit younger and does microsurgery.

I’m newly 39 and hubby is 37-we have 2 children, 21 YO and 11 YO.

I’m very nervous now after reading many negative outcomes both literally and emotionally :(

I’ve read them everywhere,

Not just here and I’m trying to stay optimistic, but I have serious anxiety ALREADY because I feel like I only have about a year to try. I don’t want to try much past when I turn 40.

I’ve never had a miscarriage and both previous pregnancies were 100% normal, to term and vaginal. I’m reading about a lot of miscarriages & I don’t know if I can handle that, especially since I feel like we are already in a time crunch and may possibly Try IVF if need be, since our insurance covers it fully.

Any words of positivity and even honesty are greatly appreciated!