He wants to be friends with benefits

My exboyfriend wants to be friends with benefits, just because we had sex . He's 28 and I'm 30. We lasted 2 months and broke up. I missed him and he missed me.

I respect everyone's choice but I feel I couldn't do it, my first boyfriend turned into friends with benefits, later on he fell in love with my best friend at the moment and he left me for her, they had baby and got married, they got a divorce and he tried to contact me but I just ignored him. :l

I want respect, and love. And I can't waste my time!