Miscarriage Aug 4 😇

Was 11 wks and 4 days when I went in for a ultrasound and this was my first visit and they couldn't find his/her heartbeat. My oldest is 13 and I've only had 1 pregnancy. I want to expand my household and I'm afraid that this may happen again. After the baby past I carried it for almost a month to see if it would flush itself out. Nope that didn't work and I actually was in labor for 5 hrs and I just felt the urge to push and I did and ended up going to the er. Vaginal ultrasound and body calming meds. Bleed for a wk after, month of sept bleed for 2 days and 1 day of sporting. Oct no period & negative pregnancy test. Ladies tell your stories.