Is this cheating in your books?

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So my boyfriend left his email open, and all I saw were dating websites. Most of them were just spam like oh your new matches for this month which doesn't mean he was using them, they were from 2012 he just didn't get rid of the site for some reason. Anyways, they were all fine except for one. I went into it. He wasn't talking to anyone or responding to messages from.  These ladies but he was looking at profiles and they were all naked or had their legs spread with no underwear on and his profile picture is of his Cock. I am SO unbelievably shocked. He didn't sleep with anyone I told him to open his Facebook and let me go through it and it was fine he just was looking on this porn like dating website. Would this be considered cheating even tho he wasn't talking to anyone... just viewing profiles and his profile picture?

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Do YOU feel like he cheated?

That's the only question which needs to be answered.

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If he were just looking at the pics then no. But the profile pic crosses the line. Drop him.

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That would piss me off. These are actual girls he could just email and talk to. Never mind the penis profile picture. Porn to me is fine as long as it's not anyone you know or the live webcam stuff. There are so many porn sites. Why use a dating hook up site to see pictures???

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When we were dating and living together I found the SAME TYPE of site on his tablet by accident when my phone was dead and I needed to check my email.. he didnt have a profile but he WAS looking at profiles, of women who were in the same town as we lived in. I. Was. Pissed. 
I asked him, calmly, about it. He said it was like porn, he was just looking. 
I told him that if he wanted to do that, fine, I'm not going to judge.. just PLEASE do not look at women in our area.. I actually recognized some of the ladies and I was VERY uncomfortable.  
He stopped completely looking at those sites because he said he felt that if I was uncomfortable then he wanted me to not worry about things. 
I didnt see it as cheating.. I just saw it as disrespect in a way. 
I dont know what to tell you about him having a profile. That decision is up to you.
Good Luck

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I don't even like porn, so this would raise a few questions...porn is a big issue for me.

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Whether it's considered cheating or not to other people doesn't matter. It bothers you so you should let him know. I just let my boyfriend know I wasn't comfortable with either of us watching porn anymore because it doesn't feel right to me. He accepted it instantly and there's no problem now. I felt a lot better after talking to him.

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It would be cheating in my book.

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The fact that you have to ask means your not okay with it. And if youre not okay with it then its wrong!

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Hes showing his penis to other women. Even on the internet, thats cheating.. Im so sorry :(

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not cheating but deff could lead to cheating!

Is this cheating in your books?

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