I feel like I’m never going to be pregnant

My husband and I had a long talk about this yesterday which he initiated we’re both just so tired of the whole process. We don’t understand why it’s not happening for us when everyone it seems is announcing their pregnancy. I feel guilty every time AF shows, I am starting to feel like less a woman. I was diagnosed with pcos but I’m still ovulating regularly. My hsg was all good, husbands sperm count is good. We just want to be parents. We just want to love our child why isn’t it possible for us. I just feel like it’s never going to happen. Nobody told us it would be so heart crushing.