Coping with a BFN

DH and I have been trying for 4 months to no avail. I know it’s not too long but it still sucks to see AF every month. Do you all have any tips on how to cope with this? I’ve been trying to make monthly plans doing things that only non-pregnant women can truly enjoy so I can still have something fun to look forward to. Last month I went to a theme park and rode rollercoasters. This month I’m getting a tattoo. What are your tips? How do you cope every month?