Depression

Hello ladies, I need advise. I’m 23w+5. For the last 2 months I’ve been dealing with headaches, scans have all come back normal. I’m seeing 2 specialists(Neurology and Opthomology) to eliminate other issues. Lately I find myself in a funk, moody, and in a depressed state. It’s causing issues with my husband and I. And I feel like a failure as a wife and mother as I am miserable to be around, I don’t blame my husband for not wanting to be around me, heck I don’t wanna be around me. My moods are putting a huge gap In between my husband and I, and I’m worried I’m gonna lose him. It’s hard to talk to him because I dont know how to explain what/how I’m feeling to him. With my past pregnancies I experienced postpartum depression, but not during. If I go to my dr and tell him what’s going on, and he agrees that is it in fact depression is there a medication that is safe to take during pregnancy or is this something I just have to suck and learn how to deal with in hopes it doesnt end my marriage.

Thanks in advance ladies.