Is it me or is it him??💔
Wanting some advice really..
My boyfriend and I argue a lot. It's a regular thing. I'd say we don't go a couple of days without an argument - over the smallest of things. With us nearly breaking up in each of them.
For example: Last night we were round at my brothers and he is self employed. He was talking about a young man he hired - who is actually one of my boyfriends friends. My brother was telling him about it. He said he knew ages ago. I explained that I told him not long ago. But he was adamant that I never told him at all. I know I told him as I can clearly remember the conversation we had after me disclosing the information. Anyway so the night goes on and he kept lying to me telling me that someone else told him and he knew months ago - even though my brother confirmed that he only had him working with him for the past couple of weeks. When we got home the argument carried on because I couldn't believe he was bare face lying to me (not unusual). He was making out that I never told him at all. (See what I mean about arguing over the smallest things ever).
I'm 28 weeks pregnant and recently if we argue before bed I won't get to sleep all night. So I kept telling him I didn't want to argue and I wanted to go to sleep as I had work in the morning. He continued to make comments so I slept in the single bed which is a really bad mattress.
So last night I never slept at all, ive been to the doctors as I thought it must be pregnancy insomnia..
Turns out my anxiety & depression has come back with vengeance and I'm feeling even more down with having hearing that news.
I haven't told him about going to the doctors as he hasn't really supported me throughout the entirety of my pregnancy and he likes to comment that I get ill when we've argued!?
Anyway, I decided to get a bath and now I'm in my nice comfy bed relaxing. He's just come in the room and tried to make light comment about me going back to the other room once I've finished the film. I just ignored his comment but then he kept saying it over and over. So I said if he's that bothered he can sleep in there, I'm pregnant and I have a bad enough back as it is AND I can't sleep well! His reply was that he's not bothered if I'm pregnant, I made my choice last night and so I need to go back into that room.
I'm not doing it, I'm staying right here!😂
I could go on about his other comments but I'll just be typing forever! What do you all think I should do? These kind of arguments are near enough every other day..
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