To be or not to be a virgin?

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So I met this guy about a week ago and i wouldn't say we were friends or anything close to that. He found out I was a virgin (i'm 19) and he offered to "get rid of it" for me with no strings attached. I'm not holding on to it for any special reason or anything it was just never the right time. I'm not sure how I feel about his offer or what i'm gonna do. I just don't want to regret doing or not doing anything. What do you think?

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This is awful. There is zero reason to ‘just get rid of it’. And how very thoughtful of him 🙄

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Leaveeeee it! You hardly know this guy and you first time should be special and people say feelings occur once you lost your virginity with someone, be safe and there is no rush to not be a virgin do it when you’re ready

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The bing is if you have sex with him you can’t take it back and may regret this, I’ve never heard of anyone having regrets over waiting. This could be a very emotional experience and you don’t want that with someone who acts like it’s nothing. Only do this if you have thought it through and remember to use protection!

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Leave it. I hardly knew the guy that took mine and I wish I waited..

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"Get rid of it." What a thoughtful and classy guy...ew.                                      Wait for a man who wants to gracefully take it and flourish all up in it.

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U want to be comfortable ur first time and it’s a very important thing to have he virginity. Tell him no. Don’t u want to be with someone u actually care about and have him caring for u. This guy just wants to take ur v-card bc ur a virgin and guys like that u never been with a guy before. Save it. Have morals ..

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If you think you'd be okay losing it to him, go for it. But be safe and know his status (like results in your hand know his status). 
Personally, I think it's important that you yourself feel ready, not pressured, and are comfortable with the individual. That was just my criteria for having sex for the first time. 
Everyone is different though. Just be safe no matter what you choose to do.

To be or not to be a virgin?

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