Help... Confused 😕

first i am CD 54 today. i swear by cramping and vvvl pink discharge only when i wiped once that i ovulated or implanted on the 13th and 21st. i thought i o'd on Oct 13th and on the 21st had cramping and vvl pink discharge when i wiped again do i thought maybe implanting as the discharge was slightly pinker in color than the 13th and had a pin point size red dot.... if i o'd on the 13th i would be 17 DPO. All BFNs. last hpt i took was yesterday on 16 dpo (13th). so obviously idk why i cramped or had pink discharge from that day. if i o'd on the 21st i am only 9 DPO today, hpt yesterday was on 8 dpo. i had very stringy clear discharge on CD 51 (*54), 52 (*55) (BD'd)and 53 (*56), still a little today (*57). so i had hubby go buy opks. they arent positive but they are very dark and arent getting lighter or darker. help me please. any advise or experiences. my cycles are about 60+ days and i miscarried in Sept. i started spotting on Sept 4th which is what i have used as CD 1 and bled for 17 days. Please help i am going crazy and no one else in any other group has helped me. i was diagnosed with pcos when my oldest daughter was almost 2 years old. she is now going to be 10 years old in a couple days. picture is of all my opks for the last 3 days.

*edit, i had the first 3 days of bleeding in my ovuview tracker as spotting so it didnt count them as cycle days. i changed them so they would count. so i am actually cycle day 57. so the opks were on CD 55, 56 and 57.