Okay y'all, just a little info about me, I'm 24, this is my second pregnancy, my first baby was born in heaven Oct. 14, last year, my boyfriend is 31, this is his 3rd baby, I don't want either of us knowing the gender, I want to give the God mothers the envelope to have them plan a gender reveal (white shirts or sweaters depending on this Texas weather, nice jeans and a black balloon filled with LOTS of glitter, paint and confetti) problem is he's dead set on knowing the gender, just because he 'hates suprieses' to quote himself, so should I give in or stick to my decision?