Cousin's adopting twins!

I'm so excited! We have a large extended family so most of us cousins are really close. My cousin has struggled with fertility since 2012 and that same year found out her husband had testicular cancer. A friend she works with said her friend was pregnant and was about to get an abortion but talked her into contacting my cousin. We are all do excited! But she doesn't want a baby shower until she knows for sure they get to take them home. Which could be up to a month after they are born because of the state they will be born in. How do we have a party so she can get some of the basics without it being a "baby shower? "