Frequent hospital visits with no real answers

I’m so over this at this point OMG

So where to begin..? I started going in to the hospital at around 19 weeks and since then have gone in at 25, 26, 28 and just this past 31 weeks

Each time I am having what appears to be labor arising or possible water breakage

This past visit on Sunday was the worst I was in there for 8 hours and I had been leaking off and on throughout the day as well as contracting 5 minutes apart

So they had to wait to see if my cervix was opening and after determining it wasn’t they sent me home but didn’t check me to see if my water had actually broken

So since Sunday through to today I’ve continued to leak to the point where I’ve had multiple leaks each day

Happens going from sitting or laying to standing or even walking around

So I went to my doctor today and she refused to check me for the sake of the baby and had me head back to the hospital to see what was happening

They check me doing their swab and put it under the microscope determining a negative result

Then the nurse says ok so come back if you find it running down your legs when you get up and that for sure will be a leak

Ummm ya that has been happening already...

Oh ok well then I don’t know because typically when women come to l & d with this happening their water has broken and they do have a small leak

Ok so what’s happening to me then?

Well I’m not sure but next time make sure there’s more

I said to her ok at this point each time I’ve been here I’ve been told if this happens come back which I do only to be told ok well now wait for that to happen.. I’m getting worried and frustrated. You guys have explained to me your tests are accurate but not always and you can’t tell me what this leaking is being as it’s not urine as we’ve ruled that out

She was clueless basically at what to tell me and said I know it’s not much help I’m sorry

So here I am with leaking happening off and on throughout the day and contractions that would have you thinking labor is setting in as it goes on for hours and is painful but baby is not coming yet

Then they freak me out by saying ok your baby is breech so if needed we would be doing a c section and with you having a irritable uterus it makes you high risk that you could have baby early but not at all women do so wait and see what happens

I’m sitting there like what????

So this could or couldn’t happen?

I’m confused.. lost and of course very nervous

And my husband is currently away in China visiting family so having all of this happen since Sunday is like a fml holy shit situation with their back and forth statements

So ladies, please tell me I’m not the only one and that this happens because otherwise this is like a unknown situation with no known result at the moment