Am i horrible or what??

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I had our daughter three month's ago and we are trying for another one. But after birth I got really really bad anxiety and my ob put me on medicine but I feel it's not helping anymore . I'm so mean to my hubby I love him more than anything he puts up with so much from me. I don't know what's wrong with me there are times I can't even stand to hear his voice I have had an anxiety attack while he was trying to tell me about his day.  I don't know if I want to continue trying for another baby I'm already very emotional being pregnant would make it worse. I know he would never leave me he's not that kind of person. I feel horrible.  Anyone have any advice or felt like this before??

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The world health organization recommends waiting 18 months after giving birth before getting pregnant again because of how many vitamins and minerals the previous pregnancy has used up in your body it needs time to recuperate

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It doesn't sound like you're ready. Relax..what's the rush?!

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Why not wait for things to settle before bringing another life into the world? Seems like chasing around two in diapers would only cause more stress!?

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You should tell you're doctor exactly what you said here. They will tell you what to do next. Anxiety SUCKS! And most of the time you do need a professional to help. There's nothing embarrassing about seeing a shrink or your GP about these feelings. Trust me.

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You might be having post partum?  Im sorry, know the feeling though. Don't be afraid to tell him what you said here. I write a note when I can't say it to my boyfriend. Talk to your doctor as well. I hope it passes quick and you're back to yourself. Hormones are a bitch!

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Hunny u have post partum depression and u need to call ur dr asap if the medicine is not working he can change it u can also talk to a therapist and try some counseling now is not the time for another baby u need to be able to have time to grow a relationship with ur baby and significant other as a loving family do urself and him a favor and call that Dr! Ppd is a very very very serious condition and can make u do violent dangerous things also try taking some mommy time go get a manicure and pedicure or go get ur hair done go out with some friends for a meal or just drink it will get better

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You should be waiting to be confortable with your new live as a mom. After you feel everything is going ok, get another baby. First baby needs her mom's love and time. It isn't crazy to wait until your body is ready. Wish you the best!

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Sounds like you have PPD. you need to go to the dr and get that straightened out before trying for another. Pregnancy is only going to make it worse and learning to be a parent is really hard work. You still have so many obsicals to face with your daughter. Cutting teeth is hard. Getting a baby to sleep on their own is hard. Difficult disisions will come up and they will be hard. You don't want to have to deal with these things wile suffering PPD and being pregnant.

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Your not horrible at all. You should talk to your doctor. Medications usually have to be adjusted.

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I would wait a little while. Enjoy your new baby

Am i horrible or what??

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