can u help me please?

Question

So heres a bit of back story before year

7 in the summer ( now on year 9) I went out with this guy let's call him Bob for now so I went out with Bob but my friend got jealous of us so I broke up with Bob, Bob got another girlfriend and at the start of year 9 ( this year) c she broke up with him 4 weeks after he said he had feeling for me so I went back out with him but then I broke up with him because I felt awkward every time I was near him, everyone get pissed at me like my whole year this was e about 5  weeks ago however on Monday he asked me back out I said yes.                                                      But I have met this new guy let's call him Jeff and I instantly fell for him he is one of the best people I have ever met my problem is I can't brake up with Bob for Jeff because everyone will be pissesd at me again what do I do

Plz comment

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Stop dating in general. You, Bob, the people who get pissed at you for making decisions about YOUR dating life, none of you sound mature enough to be in relationships period. Just take a break from guys and focus on school.

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If you can’t even use the word “break” instead of “brake” I don’t think you should date anyone. Assuming you are in middle school , dating “bob” and considering “Jeff” and BREAKING up with bob just because people hated you for you is ridiculous. If he makes you happy then stay with him if not break up with him and you can just talk to Jeff for right now don’t immediately jump into a new relationship. But your call

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Ok but why would u go back out with Jeff if u just broke up with him and didn’t like him?? I’m gonna give it to u straight, u sound like ur worried about being “that couple” that’s annoying and is always on and off and, to sum it all up, is just the stupidest thing you’ve ever seen. Well hun, itsa bit too late cuz u already r “that couple”. People r gonna expect u breaking up with him soon anyways so mine as well do it cuz u aren’t happy with him anyways.   But u need to seriously chill out. Don’t just jump right into a relationship  after breaking up with, who was it, bob? Jeff can wait. And I agree w others, u all sound too immature anyways. Don’t stress over this kind of shit cuz trust me, there’s gonna be a lot more critical stuff in the future that ur gonna be stressing over. :/

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Just break up with him, obliviously if you’re not happy you don’t need to stay with him. Like H said you should probably take a break from dating because if you’re messing around like that and changing your mind you don’t need to be focused on a iffy relationship because it’s just
going to waste your time and theirs.

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You sound really immature. Just stop dating in general, & focus on school. Bob, Jeff, Joe shmoe, doesn't matter who it is, don't do it until you realize the importance of a relationship.

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U need to find out if this “Jeff” will ask u out for sure like 100% before u break up with bob bc if ppl find out u broke up with bob out of no where for a guy who rejects u then u just lost a lot ur bf ur crush and now everyone hates u buuuuuut if Jeff doesssss ask u out then u get to date ur crush but then ppl still r angry for breaking bobs heart for another guy goodness girl idek

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I️ feel you should do what you want. Don’t care about what other people say or think. It’s your relationship, not theirs.

can u help me please?

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