3rd degree tear

anyone else have a complicayed third degree tear and still in pain. ive just started pelvic floor physio and im hopeful it will work. but anyone else feel like their recover has been kind of traumatic? i feel like thats being dramatic but my pain is so bad i cannot have intercourse and i dont know anyone in my personal life who has jad sucj a hard birth experience or recovery. even my csection momma friends seem to have had good recoveries