My 16 Year Old Sister Is Pregnant

(Sorry long post)

So, before I start I’m just going to say this backstory.

I’m younger than my sister and she has a different father than me, but we both have the same mother. Right now my mom is married to my dad and my sisters dad isn’t really the best.

My mom has full custody over me as well as my dad but my sister spends every other week at her real dads. I feel he was putting a really bad impression on her. He does drugs and he drinks and doesn’t care about my sister.

Because of this, my sister met a boy online while at my house. The boy lived in her dads neighborhood and they talked non stop. My sister was so rude to mom and she changed and I think it’s also because her father encouraged her to meet the boy. Then we found some pretty nasty stuff on her computer like sending sexual messages to each other and stuff and it was really bad. It was even on MY computer, it made me feel upset she did that because we’re best friends and sisters. I trusted her better than that.

Then for a month my mom got really angry at her and kicked my sister out for a month because she did something really horrible. My mom called up our aunt to pick up my sister but my sister never showed up and went to my dads and moved in with her boyfriend (Her boyfriend is 15).

So now we cut to now and a lot has happened and my sisters father doesn’t have custody of my sister anymore. My sister broke up with the boy and she moved back here full time and she’s starting to really become my sister again, I think she just went through some rough patches.

Well she came home yesterday and didn’t really feel good. This is 2 months after everything so I didn’t really think she was pregnant. My sisters naturally a little curvy and chubby so I wouldn’t think she’s pregnant. Mom wasn’t home so I suggested she maybe should try a pregnancy test, and then she told me she was pregnant and that she’s known for two months.

I at first was really disappointed in her. I can understand she made bad choices before like drugs and alcohol and smoking but getting pregnant made me so upset. I knew she was better than this.

Me being her little sister, I knew I had to support her. So I comforted her that evening and we talked about all this different stuff like what we’ll name the baby and what the baby will look like and what the room will look like.

I felt bad for doing it because I don’t want to bring her hopes up. I know my parents are going to be super dissapointed in her, but I’m trying to do my best to make her happy and feel loved because she’s just freaking out and so upset and she hates herself.

Yes I’m angry she got pregnant but is it right that I’m trying to be here for her?