Final results

After all the testing, hsgs, poking and prodding, and anxiety, we met with our fertility doc yesterday. I have one blocked tube but I do ovulate, and I do not have pcos. my husband has 17 million sperm , but only 1% are the cute and active kind. they want me to lose twenty pounds and for him to see a urologist before we do an iui. I was upset at first about the weight thing because I have been working out hardcore since the end of June. I'm losing inches, not really pounds, so it's kinda depressing. It's all kind of depressing that after ttc for almost 8 years these are the things that have been holding us back. Bbhut also in a different way, I'm glad that we're not rushing into an iui right now because we're so focused on our vow renewal next year. I wanted to lose weight for that and invite everyone to this big shindig we've been planning. I know I can't choose when I get pregnant but...i don't know. something feels right about getting pregnant after the vow renewal.