I just want to hold on tighter!

My 21 year old daughter is my oldest child and she is just getting so grown up and she is such the adventurous type.

Shes moved into her own place and seems very independent now and is now operating as an adult.

I call her everyday once i think she is out of class and back at her apartment, but it just seems like i cant keep her on the phone for more than 5 minutes.

I just try to make sure i help her with everything she needs and try to make sure i offer her any help she needs, but i can tell she is fine and is trying not to sound irritated. I just want to make sure she is okay especially since i sometimes help her pay for groceries and rent.

Im just concerned because she just transferred to a new school last year, and i found out she started smoking weed. She would also told me that she was having A tough time making new friends.

I keep convincing her to join some clubs and i encouraged her to join the sorority that i pledged, but she keeps saying its not her style. Haha I’ve even tried to set her up with my friends cute son, but she gets so frustrated when i try to help!

I also know it would be great if she went into the education field because she would have a better income in the future and i feel like shes great at teaching, but she insists on pursing digital media and mass comm.

Currently she is now finding new clubs, making new friends, and settling into her new school. Its likes he doesn’t really need me as much now.

I just want her to be successful and safe! i dont want her to say that i didn’t try to help her once she gets older. I love her so much and i just want to connect with her before she really grows up and potential begins to travel and spread her wings. Also my youngest daughter is prepared to move out of the house too.

Is there anyone on this site that can help me fix this with my daughter?

Thanks,

Concerned Mom :)