Why do I want to leave?

Question

Sometimes I think about leaving my SO of over a year. Not for a particular reason because he is a great guy but I don’t know I just sometimes don’t feel as loved or as wanted as I like. I know I’m being silly because this is the best relationship I’ve ever had and the sex is good but I can’t shake this feeling like something’s missing. 
I left my last boyfriend for a similar reason. It just didn’t feel right and I spent the next year after leaving my ex regretting it because I felt like I’d never find anyone good again. After a million horrible dates I finally ran into a keeper and now I’m back to feeling as though I want to let go again. What’s wrong with me? Advice? How do I fix it? What do I do?

Answer

let go.

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I think you need to love yourself more & stop trying to find that loved feeling on someone else. Also keep in mind that a person is gonna love you in their own way, only you can love yourself in the way that you wanna be loved.

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I think it’s probably something within you that you may not be satisfied with or maybe you’re focusing too much on this thing that MAY or MAY NOT be missing. I think you should stay in your relationship until you know for sure because I can’t help but feel that if you let go, you’d regret it again and just keep asking yourself “Why do I keep feeling like this?”. I almost broke up with my boyfriend(my now husband) because I just felt lost and confused as to why I felt like I didn’t want him anymore(Even though he treats and respects me so well) Ultimately it was something in me that needed to change and I’m now happily married to him

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No one can make this judgement for you. There could be, depending on your personal situation, some underlying issues, psychologically. And please don't take what I'm saying  wrong because I'm implying you have "mental health issues". But if you can't be happy or are intentionally or unintentionally sabotaging or ruining relationships that otherwise seem good and questioning yourself, some possible counseling might help to figure out what's really going on and there is nothing wrong with that. On the other hand, it really could be as simple as "he's not the one". Either way, it seems maybe taking time to figure out you on thoughts, feeling and emotions would be good because in the end... if he's not "Mr. Right".. your are only wasting not only his time but yours as well and our time here on Earth is limited and valuable.. don't spend it in a life of confusion, figure it out even if that means being alone and getting help to do so.. and if he is "the one"... and it's meant to be.. y'all will work it out. Good luck!!

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(in response to someone else's comment) ...
you elaborated my comment which was simply, "let go" every girl/& guy has that gut instinct! if you have to question it, there's a reason why. sad but true. love hurts, but true love will have you as super woman + superman as a team getting through the obstacles. it may be some things (OP) YOU have to work on for yourself to be that better woman for you first - and then your man. and truly, if youre questioning things, i guarantee your partner is too!!! after all, you're a reflection of one another: the good, the bad, and everything in between!!!

Why do I want to leave?

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