getting very annoyed

so let me start off by saying that myself and my SO have gone through alot and we nkth had worked on issues in the past. now, before i had my third baby (june) me amd my SO both worked. he likes to play computer games and what not. anyways when we were both working, we would both cook super clean up etc team effort. now since in on mat leave till april and home all the time, he thinks that he doesnt habe to help anymore. he says "i work all day" blah bkah blah. yes i get you work. sometimes alot. but i cook clean take care of a 5, 4 year old and a 5 month old. i also do laundry entertain the kids etc etc. but hold up its too much for me to ask you to load a dish washer. Yup and i told.him...well sorta yelled at him. And hes like i loaded the dishes up on saturday. Im like no you didnt cause the same load has been sitting in the dish washer since friday night!! on top of that i started going to the gym so saturday this was my morning. wake up feed baby go to gym come home and right when i get into the house my kids" im hungry" and baby screaming. k so cook breakfast feed everyone but myself cause i gotta feed the baby then eat. then clean. by the time thats done baby is bored wanta to play.......IM SO ANNOYED AND TIRED. END RANT.