To keep going or to give up

So people who have jobs some have a project that they must complete within a time frame or with kids a test which is to b done on a certain date. Now within that project u work hard cuz maybe ur getting that new office with a soda machine inside it. Anyway hard work u put time money lots of money and effort into this one thing almost more than paying attention to u that u have worn the same shirt for a month. So over time u feel great about it and keep give to the project. Then others around the project and in it will cause problems. So u don’t know if u should continue with it or just give up.

So I’m in a relationship I’ve put effort time money. I keep giving and some times I get things back. But lately it’s been bothering me with things he’s said and things I’m afraid he could b doing right now and maybe he’s not at all. Feel so frustrated in all I do so much and not getting anything or hardly anything back. So I care and love him a lot but I don’t know if I should continue doing that and telling him how much time I want him to spend with me or how I wish he would treat me. To sit and communicate what we could try to work out. Or give up move on to whatever