My parents just don't understand

I just gave birth to my son 3 months ago. My parents pressured me and my fiance to move 2 hours back home and stay with them for a little while so we could save up money, pay off some debt, and buy a house. So we did. My fiance works factory jobs so it was fairly quick and easy for him to find a job. On the other hand, it's not easy for me to find a job in my particular field in a small town. I have a bachelor's degree and have been trying to find a job similar to what I was doing before, but I have also broadened my job search since there are not many jobs available here. I'm trying really hard but it's almost been a month that I've been unemployed and my parents are starting to blame me. I have not asked them for anything since we moved in, I've even bought most of our own groceries, so I know that we have not put much (if any) financial burden on them at this point. But today they went off on me about not having a job yet. They think for some reason I'm trying to just be a stay at home mom (which makes no sense considering I already found a day care and have been taking my son there for the last two weeks so that I can start working as soon as I find a job). They think I need to just give up finding a job in my field and go work some minimum wage job right now. I'm trying my hardest to find a job I'm qualified for that actually pays the bills. I can't afford to take that much of a pay cut. They are acting like I'm lazy and worthless and just don't want to work. I don't understand where this is coming from. They told me to move down here. They encouraged me to move and THEN look for a job. But now it's not okay? I don't know what to do. I'm fed up being treated like a bum when I had a decent paying and well respected job before. This feels like a mistake 😭

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