Having a lot of problems...
So I’m trying to tell my roommate that she needs to stop acting like the room is only hers. I don’t spend a lot of time in the room but just because I’m not there doesn’t mean it’s not still half my room ya know? Well I’ve been dealing with her smell a lot lately. I’m unsure if it’s her or her boyfriend but one of them smells like onion and makes the entire room stink.

At first I thought it was the open things of food or her laundry but she cleaned (after I asked her to) and it still smells awful. I’ve tried everything to get the smell out but nothing works and I’m scared I’ll start to smell.

Anyway on top of this she sleeps in complete darkness which is normal except she sleeps sometimes till 4 in the afternoon which means I have to tip toe around my room by flashlight to get dressed and do my make up every morning (and by morning I mean 11AM)

She won’t even let me open the curtain to let in a little natural light (which would probably help her sleep cycle). I opened the curtain today and while I was out she got on my freshly made bed and closed the curtain which unmade my bed.

On top of all of this she constantly has her boyfriend over which is fine until he stays and she leaves. Like this is not his room he shouldn’t be staying when she’s not there.

More over, today she had a friend and her boyfriend over which is fine but instead of being normal and going into the living room which is a larger space she decided to stay in the room (which is literally 8 by 11 square feet and can barely handle two people let alone 4). So when I came home I was greeted by a complete stranger saying “Who are you?” IN MY OWN DORM! 🙄

I just feel like she’s not respecting me or my stuff. I don’t know what to say to her to get her to stop.
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