Finding the best obgyn while ttc

I’m trying to find a good obgyn that understands the struggle while ttc and is supportive. My current one told me to “relax and wait and everything is fine” and we all know if you’re trying and it’s been a long time those are the most annoying words you can hear. So what do you look for? What questions do you ask? Where do you search? Do you look at google ratings or yelp?