Please tell me I’m not the only one...

I’m a straight woman in my late twenties, been married for 5 years and have a 3 year old daughter. In recent years I started noticing myself checking out other women. I don’t feel sexually attracted to these women, I just notice when I see a beautiful person... kind of like when I see a good looking guy, I mean we all check out other people right?

Somehow in the past few days I have myself convinced that this makes me interested in women, but I don’t find myself thinking about women sexually and I’ve never fantasized or had a sexual experience with another woman.

I feel really guilty, almost like I’m hiding something from my husband I don’t know how to (or even if I should) bring it up to him without making him think I’m interested in women. I feel totally guilty for having this feeling, and I feel like I need to tell him. I don’t know why all of sudden I feel guilty about it, it’s been going on for years. I used to look at women as competition but now that I’m older and not insecure I find myself looking at women and finding them attractive.

Anyone else on the same boat?