Scenario:

You've been married to your husband for 8 years. Been together for 11 years. You have 3 daughters ages 9, 6, and 2. You both work full-time and split the bills 50/50. Your husband has NEVER not come home an hour after he gets off work. In your mind he would never cheat. Why would he? You're beautiful, smart, and you take good care of your family. You have sex almost everyday. You've learned how to play video games and watch sports and he has learned to like romantic movies. You talk about everything. He's your best friend.He even encourages you to pamper yourself. Basically, nothing about him screams cheater!

A woman in boxes you on FB. She tells you she's been sleeping with him for the past year. She is his coworker. She just thought you should know. She sends you two pictures. One, she's sitting on his lap kissing him on the cheek. Two, a screenshot of them texting which reads

Her "hey daddy"

Him"wassup lil mama"

Her"I need that again"

Him "I got you"

Would you leave him?

People always say they will leave but how? What steps would you take in this situation to get out of this relationship. Just saying yes I would leave makes it seem easy.