HELP: I don’t want to have sex with my husband!

Okay ... I shouldn’t say I NEVER want to... but I have definitely lost that lust and desire for my husband. We have been together for 3 1/2 years and married for about 6 months. He is an AMAZING man that is kind, loving, giving and always puts me first, would do anything for me, financially and emotionally stable, wonderful family, extremely handsome ... honestly no complaints!

Lacks some ambition to strive for better and is very passive, but nothing TOO unmanageable.

It also happened in a previous long term relationship of mine (together for 5 years) where I just no longer physically desire them and would rather them not even touch me. I lose that new/mysterious/excitement of the unknown lust and just don’t know what to do ! I know it is common for couples to lose that fire but I know him and I have decades to go and am worried that I won’t be about to get that back. I hate the thought of sex feeling forced but it really does feel like a chore to me. I honestly have thoughts like “just do it tonight quick so it’s over and you don’t have to worry about it again for a few days” Please help on how to keep the lust and desire alive in a healthy, long term, committed relationship.

I have also spoken with my husband out it and he is open and willing to try anything.