Your soon to be 16 yr old confides in you that they have had oral sex. You're response.

My daughter told me tonight that her and her boyfriend were left unsupervised at her dad's house and she preformed oral on her boyfriend. I told her that I am happy that she feels she can speak to me about this. I did tell her I am not condoning what she is doing because I want her to be safe and not catch an STD or get pregnant. However, I remember being a teen and how tough my mom was on me. I told her to make smart choices and to please not rush growing up. I feel I can not be angry with her. One, she was open and honest with me. Two, it's a natural part of growing up. The boyfriends mom did find out and she grounded him. How would you handle this situation?