I feel...

I feel 80% of the time my husband is uninterested in me.. not sure what to do😕 we've been married 4 years. been together for 5. I try to do things to make him interested, it doesn't work. The only time I feel he's( sexually)wants me, is on his own time. I'm thinking of the times we use to have.. we have so many withdraws I start thinking of one guy I dated before him and its not right..( I know) ugh!! but I'm here staying faithful and strong. wondering what to do..I guess I'm not asking I'm just venttig..💨💨💨