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I have always wanted a baby and I absolutely love kids but I started wanting one really bad at 15 but it never happened and now I'm 17 almost 18 and I'm starting to want to try it again but he doesn't want any kids and it hurts what should I do? 
Update were are not together anymore and im closing this chapter in my life..  found someone else and I'm moving on

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You should WAIT. You're so young, go to college, have a life first.... do you.

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Is there a support system for a baby? Job/money/insurance of your own/somewhere to live? Maybe he wants to do more before having a child

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Wait. Also find a significant other who SOMEDAY, not now, wants kids.

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Oh and so you know... kids cost a lot of money. Insurance (ours is $1200/month), food, housing, clothes, school, school needs, diapers, daycare, toys, books, education... it’s all expensive and adds up quickly.

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I would wait. I'm assuming he's around your age? Being such a young parent is scary for a guy and not really practical. Give him a chance to grow up a little and get his life together before you start having kids. The last thing you want to do is have a baby with no way to support it.

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Obviously right now isn't the best time for you which I know hurts but think about your future children and them not thriving as well right now compared to when you are with someone who does want kids and you both are ready. That's really all I can say because I know what it's like yearning for kids, but I also had a boyfriend and a situation that played out perfectly to make that happen without much concern.

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I had my oldest at 18 thru a situation I couldn’t control. I wouldn’t give him up for anything but I wish I had had more time to grow up. You have a choice, wait til you can give your baby everything it needs

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Of course he doesn't want any kids at 17, he is being smart

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Absolutely wait to have kids. You’re so young, you have so much ahead of you. Children are wonderful, but there is a time and a place for them. Do NOT try to force your boyfriend since he does not want kids now and do NOT go behind his back and get pregnant.

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