Is their something wrong with me?

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okay so I'm f17 and I never had an orgasm. I've been sexually active since I was 15 and have had 4 sexual partners. All of them tired, did their stuff, but I never orgasmed and it feels embarrassing and it also hurts their ego (and my current

boyfriend's cuz he thinks he's not doing a good job, etc) 😅

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Keep trying different things like different positions and stuff to see what works. Took my ex 7 months to make me orgasm but once he did he could do it over and over again

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you should probably do it yourself! i’ve learned that you can’t be 100% comfortable with your body & open for orgasm until you’ve experimented with yourself!!

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alot of girls can only orgasam in a certain position. if you masterbate show him how you do it.

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it's very common to not be able to come until you're in your 30s. testosterone increases by then, making it easier. however I'm only 20 and I have an easy time of it... so everyone is different!! in the meantime I would suggest trying new things and different positions. masturbation is a great way to explore yourself. try switching up environments, find out what turns you on most!!!

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I’ve been sexually active since 15 also, had a lot of sexual partners (whoops! 🤣) and no one made me cum until my current partner at the age of 21. We’ve been together 4 years now and he can make me cum every time. For me it has to be more than just sex, he is amazing at eating pussy and ill cut every time, multiple times. 
It’s not your fault that it’s not happening, there’s nothing wrong with you, it really is them 😂😂

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I have been with the same man for five years. he was my first and is my only partner. we have tried tons of things and I still can't have orgasms from/during sex. I don't consider it a big deal anymore. I used to get irritated because he really wasn't interested in trying anything to help me. now I don't care cuz I have a drawer full of toys that make me cum without fail and without him all the time. I love my man dearly and he generally treats me like gold in every other way. it's not uncommon for younger women with less experience in bed to not be able to cum for a while. just tell your man to enjoy sex and not to worry about it too much because it's possible you just need to go slow and take your time. just have fun trying things and don't focus on making it orgasms happen too much because that can take the fun out of it and give you both and etc about it that will make it more difficult to cum. I've read a lot about this in the last few years hoping there was some new trick we could try or that I'd get an answer that something was wrong with me or wrong with him and we could just fix it. it's not that black and white though. it may help if you try relaxing g and masturbating to learn what you like and what you don't like. that may also help you get more comfortable with yourself so that you can be more open with your partner about what you need and how you can make it happen together. but everyone is different. I am personally resigned to the idea that sex for me does not include orgasms and it took me five years to be ok with that. but you should just keep doing some reading up on it and trying things because everyone is different and much of what I have read is that it just takes time, patience, communication. the best thing you can do is keep trying and remember to relax and have fun trying things.