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So I know Iām half in the wrong here but after being with a previous partner who was a serial cheater and liar for 4 years when ya get that gut feeling somethings wrong then ya know somethingās wrong in my gut I just knew there was something underlying
So me and my new boyfriend have been together officially for 4 months and I cannot be happier we didnāt know each other growing up we met through mutual friends and I truly thought he was the one, we got serious and we had a chat about sex, sexual partners etc Iāve never had and sti but he admitted to having chlamydia to which he got treated for we moved on to exās I tell him everything as Iām madly in love he said his last ex was a girl from his town it ended no hard feelings.
So he falls asleep tonight and Iāve just been having this wriggling feeling in my gut that somethings not right, so I get his phone go onto messenger and type in her name well what I found made me want to be sick!! HE HAD GENITAL WARTS!!!! Few weeks before we met theyāre was a huge argument between them he never onceās mentioned this to me he has no warts and never has since Iāve been with him I feel so distrusted as I spilled a lot of my heart to him about my ex and how I was lied to
What the fuck do I do someone please please help me
How do I approach this situation he would never tell me I understand itās embarrassing but Iāve told him some very emotional / embarrassing things about myself I never had too but With previous experience itās better out in the open I wanted this relationship to be open and trusting and better and I feel all thatās went down the drain Iām so upset
Would like to add that I had a check up 1 week before I met him and I was clean as a whistle. Going to get checked tomorrow morning Iām just so heartbroken any tips on how to bring this up
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