My boyfriend and I have a 3 1/2 year old & a 1 year old. We’ve been arguing about Christmas traditions and plans. I grew up going to one set up grandparents on Xmas <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">eve</a> and LOVED getting to open presents before Santa came. Then the next day we did Xmas morning at home then went to my other grandparents house. Did the same exact thing every year (therefore it was a tradition). My boyfriends mom is throwing a bitch fit that we’re going to my moms Xmas day (we saw his family thanksgiving and not mine) but we’re not driving all over the place with 2 kids. I told him that I wanted to start doing what I did growing up, his parents Xmas <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">eve</a>, mine Xmas day. But he says that’s stupid and not the same (only because he didn’t grow up that way) “to an adult Christmas <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">Eve</a> is just another night” ya I know but it’s not about the adults.. it’s about the kids. This is something super important to me that I really want to do the way I grew up and have that tradition and routine. I loved knowing what was going on and being pumped to go to my Grammies to open presents and what to expect. I don’t know, i need advice on how to handle the subject/ what you would do & I just needed to vent 😪

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