Is it ok?

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Is it OK that I don't cook for my husband often? Some times I'll make tacos or spaghetti or enchiladas or something. Most if the time we just find something around the house to eat though. My MIL keeps making a big stink and chewing me out for not cooking for her son every night. She says if I was a good wife I would do at least the cooking and then the cleaning after that. I will ask my husband what he wants and he says he will just make himself something. Is it ok that I don't cook very often?

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If your husband isn’t complaining then fuck his Mama! 😂

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Sounds like she needs to mind her own damn business

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Why isn’t he able to cook? Is something wrong with his hands or...? 😂

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Yeah it’s okay. I don’t cook either. I’m awful at cooking lol

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I cook for my husband almost every night but that's because im sahm and he works all day but if your hubby is not complaining then fuck what you mil says

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I hardly ever cook meals 🤷🏻‍♀️ my fiancé hardly ate when I cooked (he’s skinny as hell) so it was a waste of money really. If that’s how you guys work that’s fine, sounds like she’s just stuck in her old timey ways.

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My man owns a restaurant so half the time I go to the trouble of cooking he brings himself home a salad or something, or says he ate a mistake at work. (Unless I specifically text him that I made dinner, then he waits to eat what I made of course). So honestly I don't cook that often. There's always food in the house though. Sometimes I feel bad and like I should be a "better wife", but as long as we are both fed, I think my time is better spent elsewhere.

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Whatever works for you & your spouse. I personally really enjoy cooking and do the cooking 6 nights a week but I have many friends who don't cook at all and their husbands do it. It really doesn't matter as long as you & your spouse are happy with your system.

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I never understood the “ good wife” term... whoever can cook, should cook if you are into homemade food.  Heck, my 14 year old son sometimes cooks for us with my supervision obviously!

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Just because she is old fashioned, doesn't mean you have to be.

Is it ok?

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