Hello ladies,

Looking for some advice really my partner has suffered from quite bad depression for around 6 years, had mild depression all his life. How can I help him? He refused to see a doctor says that he is not important enough to get help and not entitled because his brother is disabled and he has always been more important. He is saying that he just wants to me left alone he doesn’t want to be around anyone at all even me and our baby. He says he is sick of pretending he is ok. I told him he doesn’t need to pretend with me and just talk to me.

But he is pushing me away I don’t know what to do anymore. I love him so much and couldn’t live without him I have is back 100% even when he does silly things. I just want to help him but don’t know how too. He disappeared one day when he was having a bad day and didn’t come home till 1am he had been sitting in his car at a derelict field thinking of ending it.

So sorry for the long post I just don’t know what to do.