We had our 20 week anomaly scan today at 19 weeks+5 and I was sooo excited and I feel like our ultrasound tech just ruined this special moment!

She was rude as soon as she called my name and walked us back and said, “just lay on the table”.

Through out the entire scan she didn’t say hardly a word and we had to just read what she was labeling, body parts etc and pretend we knew what we were looking at.

My SO is very funny and he was just being himself, he made me laugh a few times and she scolded me and told me to “stop making my belly move so much!”

Like what in the actual f*%# ?!

I asked her a few questions about baby and she said “this is a scan to see if everything is ok with baby, not for fun”

Um, ok. She didn’t even say “it’s a girl!” She just wrote the word girl under

un-obvious private parts —I’m like jeez! We already knew she was a girl through blood test, it’s just the way she did it.

Baby girl wouldn’t stay still the whole time so she just kept sighing like this was inconvenient for her...like I can make my 20 week fetus cooperate.

Fiance and I just ended up staying silent the rest of scan and it just really was disappointing and awkward.

At the end of appointment she stated that the radiologist will review scans, but they probably will want me to come back for more scans because it wasn’t “optimal”. Ok? So, now I’m all worr

ied something is wrong.

Really trying to figure out if she was just having a bad day and to let it be or call and complain. This was a special day for

us that we have been looking forward to and she literally just crushed it.

On the bright side we got a few pics and are over the moon about baby, Kate.

Oh, and apparently she likes to hangout with her knees touching her face. Haha!

20 weeks 😊

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