Has your boyfriend ever asked you to do this?

So last night I was with my boyfriend and we were just chilling at his place watching a movie. I started getting horny and climbed up onto him, like in a straddling position. So we’re kissing and he slides his hands into my leggings and he’s playing with my clit and then he starts fingering me. My leggings were gonna tight and they weren’t sliding down that well and he goes, “hey don’t be mad... but would you wanna try something more phallic, like an object?”

Bit of backstory, I’m 20 and he’s my first boyfriend and I haven’t had penis in vagina intercourse yet, which is why I’m guessing he suggested an object 😒

I was surprised he asked me that and felt a bit awkward. I just told him no I don’t wanna do that babe. If we were already having sex and he wanted to introduce sex toys I would’ve said yes, but I didn’t feel comfortable just letting him stick a cucumber or some shit up my vagina (and it probably would’ve hurt anyways). But I felt sorta weird after the request, I think of myself as a sex positive person, but for a moment I just felt like he didn’t respect me.

What do y’all think? Has your man ever asked to do that? Did you think it was weird? Did you say yes?