should I tell my husband I got std tested?

Question

So I've been with my husband for 4 years. before him I had 3 sexual partners and was never tested for stds or anything like that. So I saw how some women have issues conceiving because of an untreated std or Sti. I'm afraid to tell my husband because I don't want him to think I don't trust him or that I've done something. I was always safe with the other guys I was with but you never know. what should I do? should I wait until I get the results?

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You should always be in communication with your spouse. Usually people tell their SO how many people they’ve been with so if he thinks you were a virgin the. He mght be upset to hear this otherwise he should be happy that you’re being mature and getting tested for your health and safety.

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I literally texted my husband one day and was like “at my doctors appointment i’m getting checked for STD’s through blood + Pap smear. He said okay. He wasn’t mad at all. He should thank you for making sure everything is normal. It’s not that big of a deal

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std test is a standard test. there's nothing to hide about it.

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it's not a big deal, I wouldn't make it a big deal

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Just be upfront and say hey I was doing some reading about conceiving and it got me worried about stds because I never had it done before and just want to clear your mind. If he isn’t cheating or isn’t worried about having one he should be understanding

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I don't think it would hurt to tell him. Maybe he'll get tested also?

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there should never be any secrets in the relationship especially a marriage. just sit him down and explain like you did in this post. if he loves you like he should as a husband, he will understand your concern.

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You should tell him.

should I tell my husband I got std tested?

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