Question for ladies already parents

Does anyone here have a chronic illness or anxiety and have a child? I am really struggling with trying to decide if my husband and I should pursue infertility treatments. That’s right, not only do I have anxiety, and other chronic illnesses, we are infertile too! on the days I feel good I think that I could totally handle it, but on the days where I don’t feel so great I really question it. I know everyone is different but just wondering if anyone has any insight