nobody seems to care...

I had surgery yesterday to retrieve an IUD that had gone through my uterus wall and ended up in my pelvis. my husband was there with me but he seemed distracted, maybe just nervous. surgery went well but it took me awhile to wake up from the anesthesia. hubby was in charge of updating family members on my surgery. instead, he posted random stupid things on my Facebook and sent everyone a text in Spanish (we don't speak spanish BTW) I was upset when I found out because I feel like he didn't even care. he said he was just playing around but it really made me mad.

I was extremely out of it when my nurse was trying to make me eat something so she could give me pain meds. I was nauseous but she wouldn't listen. she gave me the meds and made me get up to walk. I was literally in tears but she was rushing me to things so she could get me out of there. I wish my husband would have said something on my behalf because I was still out of it, but instead he sat in the corner on his phone silently. I ended up puking all over the floor. they were still trying to get me discharged. I was being wheeled out to my vehicle before I even knew it. the rest of the day was a blur. I slept mostly. today I am in a great deal of pain. going to the bathroom hurts, just getting out of bed hurts. my husband hasn't helped me much. he turned on the tv for me, got me a drink and has been in another room all day. I feel like he doesn't want to deal with me. nobody has even called to check on me, except for my boss, just to see if I would be at the office monday. its been 3 hours since he has even came into the the room. I spent 30 mins in the bathroom trying to get off the toilet because it hurt so bad to stand up. nobody cares.