relationship advice...

Naomi

My boyfriend and I haven't talked much in the past two months. Texting has been our only form of communication really because he hates talking on the phone. He doesn't like my roommates so he never comes over. I recently got a new job, and I can't afford to drive 25 minutes to see him every day anymore, but he refuses to drive and see me even though he has more than enough. By that, I mean he can afford to blow $150-$200 every paycheck after bills and gas, etc. here's what's been bothering me the most though - now I'm lucky to hear from him at all. I know he's not cheating on me, but he'd much rather sit on his ass after work and play on his phone or his Xbox for the rest of the day. it used to not bother me because I knew it was his way of winding down and he would eventually put the controller down and talk to me but here lately he won't. Wednesday night I left my phone in the kitchen so we could talk about things and work something out, only to sit down with him and watch him play on his phone for an hour. if he's not playing a game on his phone, he's glued to his xbox for hours. He won't look at me, I don't think he's kissed me in about a month. We don't have sex because we both wanted to wait until marriage and he's a virgin, so I didn't want to push my luck😂 I'm about done with it though. I'm tired of being ignored or treated like I don't exist. I love him and we've talked about marriage but I don't see that anywhere near our future. what's funny is our two year anniversary is in March.. I really need some advice on what to do. I really don't want to break up with him, but something has got to give. help :(